Would you consider dating me
It's going to make the pool of people willing to date you in the future smaller - even if you don't get bad symptoms.The fact that people consider it a dealbreaker isn't just an issue when considering dating this one person put before you, it's also a consideration that everyone else will make in regards to conclusion is "yes, I'll give it a shot" - if you get it you get it, and congratulations you've just made life harder on yourself. If she doesn't respect OP's bodily integrity and his right to decide whether or not he wants to put himself in this position, she's not OP's friend to begin with.He knows I'm not interested in anything, and we're not flirting but he always starts conversations and keeps them going so my concern is increasing.Which of the friends would you not see yourself dating. Out of 20 male friends I haven't dated, I'd probably only sleep with 7 in a different life. However I feel like with guys they'd date/sleep with most of their friends. First of all I like their personalities (irrelevant with the question) and second of all I am not sexually attracted to them.
Fast forward to the next day and I get a text saying before we go any further she has to let me know that she has herpes and that if that's something I'm not okay I with I should let her know now.Which I don't think she took it well because I get a call from the friend that set us up basically calling me names and that I was shallow for "letting a girl like her get away" which confused the hell out of me because she knows what kind of guy I am and that I would never be sexually active with someone who has contracted an std.But she told me " I was living in the past that alot of people have herpes and that I needed to be more sex positive when it comes to stuff like this." I told her "no way" then she hung up on me and I haven't heard from her since.It might be easier to explain your situation because trying to relate to others to fit your situation isn't going to help you. Just wanted reassurance that guys don't necessarily become friends with you to date you. Recently became friends with a guy and I feel like we could be on the cusp of something good friendship-wise.Thought we were on the same page but I'm always cautious in case the guy is after more than friendship.