Women and dating mistakes
And if she's so boring that her answers can't hold your interest, maybe it's time to reevaluate the budding relationship. Not being present Your 348 Twitter followers can wait: If you're on a date, you have no business tweeting, texting, checking in, or Instagramming.
"Shut down whatever else you're doing—that includes electronic devices, but also just the noise in your head—and show up," says Thomas.
"You have to be creative, confident, and positive." Pursuing a girl like you'd pursue a client might seem desperate, but Cardone disagrees.
"You only come across as desperate if you try the same thing more than once," he explains.
"You've taken care of her, so she's going to wonder what you her to do to take care of you." Upping the ante so quickly forces her to make an uncomfortable choice: Does she go along with your crazy charade, or does she bail? Talking about yourself Everyone loves to talk about themselves. True story: If you ask her something about herself, be prepared to actually engage—if you don't, you look like a jerk who's only interested in himself and his own agenda."Pretending to be something you're not is fear operating," Thomas says."It implies a defectiveness with who you are—it says you're afraid of who you are." Thomas points out that humans have an important, intuitive ability to sense fear (survival instinct, and all that), so you'll only be able to pull the wool over her eyes for a couple of dates, max. Mistaking a good work relationship for attraction Dating a co-worker is never a great idea, but hey—it happens. Improve your dating technique by understanding common mistakes people make. Game playing: This strategy is usually employed for one of two reasons. When it comes to dating, everyone, on some level, fears rejection.Playing it cool and not getting too involved may make you feel safe, but you risk coming across as aloof or remote, and may turn the other person off.