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Here’s a new article which I wrote as a special to Yahoo! And while I never write emails for others, the request makes perfect sense.

————————————————————Of all the things that clients (especially men) ask me to help them with, the most common query involves assistance with writing introductory emails.

Remember, that’s why she wrote it — because she wants you to get to know her, not because she wants to be told for the umpteenth time that she’s hot. NOT the thing you like the most, NOT the thing you find most attractive, NOT the thing you have in common. It might be how she doesn’t know how to program her Ti Vo. Yes, you think it’s cool that she also likes Robert De Niro movies and skiing in Vail. The sillier and more over-the-top your email, the funnier it’ll be.

Men who treat women as unique and interesting individuals stand a much greater shot of receiving a response. The most interesting tidbit in her profile is the thing that sounds like it couldn’t have been written by anybody else in the world. Whatever it is, take her quirky tidbit and turn it into your pickup line. The most effective way to catch someone’s attention in an initial email is with fiction. Because the truth, as we’ve established, is boring. But does any of that sound like a good pickup line to you? A good joke doesn’t require an explanation — it’s obviously a joke. Talk to you soon, Evan If these kinds of emails don’t work for you, no problem. Just keep in mind that the confidence it takes to write an email like that is compelling.

You are not going to get a response if you start off a message by saying for example: That isn't going to generate any positive feelings with most women even if you are using this first message online dating formula exactly.

Now you you want to tell an interesting story tied to one of the interests you just mentioned.

Well, you can start by remembering these three basic rules: It’s not that “You’ve got a great smile, let’s go out sometime” is a bad opener. I read your profile and thought it was really amazing. So please look at my profile and if you like what I had to say, write back to me when you get a chance. If you’re too complimentary in that initial email, you can come off as desperate and needy. Still, the question remains: how do you say something original and flirty?

But when it comes to acting on that statement, most of them don’t. In fact, I think I’m posting this on JDaters Anonymous.

Use the information about her you learned from her profile to bring up some shared interests.

For example: Try to include the senses involved in the shared interests.

My favorite line was: " This is a great way to connect with her and demonstrate that messaging you is in her best interest.

She is on that site to meet someone great and that just might be you.

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